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When did you last lose track of time doing something you enjoyed?
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Which ordinary place makes you feel most like yourself?
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What conversation have you been thinking about lately?
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What is something you noticed recently that you would once have missed?
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Which part of your day would surprise someone who only knows you online?
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What do you make time for even when life gets busy?
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Which quality do you appreciate more in people as you get older?
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What is a decision you are glad you made slowly?
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What have you changed your mind about in the past few years?
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When have you felt proud without needing anyone else to notice?
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What does a good ordinary week look like to you?
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Which of our shared memories do you remember differently from me?
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What is something we used to do that you would enjoy doing again?
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When is it easiest for you to reach out to a friend?
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What kind of support feels useful when you have a difficult week?
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Is there something about your life you wish I asked about more often?
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What small tradition could we start without making it another obligation?
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What would you like to be a beginner at again?
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Which old interest might deserve another chance?
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What part of your life feels more settled than it used to?
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What are you curious about without needing to be good at it?
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What is one thing you hope stays the same over the next few years?
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What would you try if you could keep it small and private at first?
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What was the most unexpected part of your day?
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What is one thing you would like me to know before we talk about plans?
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Which small task felt bigger than it looked today?
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Did anything make you laugh when I was not there?
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What would be a kind way to spend the next hour?
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Would you like company, help or quiet this evening?
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If we planned an outing using only places within walking distance, where would we go?
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What meal would you enjoy learning to make together, even badly?
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Which very ordinary activity would you turn into a competition?
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What would our imaginary tiny shop sell?
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What song would you put on a playlist for this stage of our lives?
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If we had an afternoon with no booking and little money, what would you choose?
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What did you enjoy doing before you cared whether you were good at it?
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Which family custom did you assume everyone had?
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What does being welcomed into a home look like to you?
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What is a compliment you remember because it felt accurate?
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Which part of getting older has surprised you in a good way?
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What do you wish people understood about your work or daily responsibilities?
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Which ordinary day together would you like to revisit?
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What is something we handled well as a team?
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Which place holds a memory for you that I may have forgotten?
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What has changed in your idea of a good weekend?
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What is one shared plan we could make smaller and easier to begin?
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What would you like us to keep making room for?
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What would you name a restaurant that served tonight’s dinner?
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What did you notice on the way here that nobody else might have seen?
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Which sound tells you that you are home?
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What made you curious today?
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If tomorrow had one extra hour, what would you do with it?
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What is something small we could look forward to this week?
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If you could invent a tiny holiday, what would people do?
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Which object in this room would have the best story to tell?
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What is a skill you could teach someone in five minutes?
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Which animal would be the most inconvenient dinner guest, and why?
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What would you put in a box for us to open in a year?
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What would a perfect rainy afternoon include?
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What did a normal Saturday look like when you were younger?
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Which food reminds you of a person or place?
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What did you have to practise before it became easy?
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Who taught you a useful trick that you still use?
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What was different about keeping in touch with friends?
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What family saying do you remember, and where did it come from?
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What is something we could make using things we already own?
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Which nearby place would you like to show the rest of us?
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What should we cook together next time?
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What could become a five-minute family tradition?
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Who has an idea for a game where nobody needs to win?
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What would make the next gathering easier or more comfortable?
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Questions before you begin
Are the conversation cards free?
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Are these questions a relationship assessment?
No. They are original conversation ideas, without scores or promises about relationships.